We all have busy lives. The demands placed on that most valuable commodity – Time – are getting increasingly pressured and unrealistic, and we spend much of our time frantically prioritising the various obligations that we have to fulfil.
Something has to give. If we don’t consciously intend to make space for something, it will be pushed to the bottom of the pile, and eventually forgotten. Often, the things that are pushed to the bottom of the priority pile are the things that are focused on ourselves; the novel we’ve always wanted to write, the art class we’ve wanted to join, the exercise regime we’ve been thinking about...
It’s easy to lose sight of these aspirations in the pace of the daily grind, and without realising it, our lives become a series of obligations. We don’t realise it consciously; we simply carry on, an inexplicable sense of dissatisfaction lingering, until we’ve forgotten what we actually want to do, and can’t quite understand why we’re feeling a bit rubbish.
It’s easy to sail through life without setting intentions. Which is a shame, because when you do, you find yourself making space for the things that you actually WANT to do – the things that are focused on you and your wellbeing. Gradually, that lingering feeling that your life isn’t your own fades. You regain a sense of control over your life.
It’s important to set conscious intentions. Without them, it is almost impossible to sustain any activity, however well intentioned. More pressing, short term obligations will always take precedence, and although you know that your workout will feel good, yield amazing results and most importantly, is time for you, and you alone, you are always likely to fall prey to the many demands that life puts on you, neglecting yourself and your own needs in the process.
The challenge of exercise is, first and foremost, the challenge of adherence. Of making space for it in the landscape of your life. Of prioritising yourself and your own wellbeing. Set the conscious intention to put yourself first, and to make space for exercise. It’s the first step to integrating exercise into your life, and, before you know it, it will be an immovable part of the various components of your lifestyle.
Make the conscious decision to give yourself priority a few times a week to reconnect with your body. Set the intention. Let yourself come first! You’ll be amazed at the progress you make.
