body confidence

18
Apr
2023

U-Kandu Inspiration: Daddy Cool

U-Kandu Inspiration: Daddy Cool

One of the things I am really excited about being able to do on this website, is to celebrate inspirational people. People who embody the philosophy of the U-Kandu Way, and deserve to be celebrated for being such fantastic examples of the human spirit and wellness.

Often, inspiration really does begin at home. My Dad, Sukhwant Singh Kandula, is a perfect model of the U-Kandu Way. In fact, he has inspired it.

Dad was born in 1949 (I’m sure he won’t mind my saying!). He ran his first 10k race in June, 2013. He now runs regularly on the Warwickshire and Midlands circuit, completing 10k, and half marathon events. He has been given honorary member status of a running group that operates in Worcestershire, and attends the Leamington Spa Parkrun, both as a runner and as a volunteer, on a weekly basis. He has just run his 164th race. Not bad for a guy who ran his first distance race at the age of 64.

The most inspiring thing about Dad’s approach is not the distance he runs, or the times he achieves (though I will say he’s shaved a good 5 minutes off his earliest race times!), but his mental approach to his running. He isn’t obsessed with his weight, or his race times, or pushing through his limits. He runs because it feels good for him, keeps him healthy, and most of all, because he ENJOYS it.

I firmly believe that if he were running simply for aesthetic gain, or to prove some kind of point, he wouldn’t still be doing it. Those goals are so short term, and fundamentally unsatisfying, that the time inevitably comes when you will look to something else to bolster your sense of self-esteem. Dad is a wonderful example of sustained progress, because his mental approach is one that is geared towards self-fulfillment and the improvement of his health. He walks regularly, runs regularly, eats well, and is fitter than many people half his age. Plus, he makes it look easy!

Whenever we get together for family events, we all share our aspirations. Often, health and fitness will come up (as they do in many families, I’m sure!). While we natter on about what we will do in the year, months or weeks to come, Dad sits quietly, a knowing smile on his face. He doesn’t need to talk about it. He just gets it done. He represents the health and fitness that many aspire to, and is leading by example.

There are no barriers to leading a healthy lifestyle. Only you and the approach that you choose to take. Dad’s approach is one geared towards health, and gentle, sustained improvement. 4 years and innumerable races later, he is proof that his approach works.

Treat yourself as an individual, take your time, and be kind to yourself. With enough patience and self love, you'll find the approach that works for you too.

father and daughter smiling after race finish

"Dad is a wonderful example of sustained progress, because his mental approach is one that is geared towards self-fulfilment and the improvement of his health. He walks regularly, runs regularly, eats well, and is fitter than many people half his age. Plus, he makes it look easy!"

Posted by Taj Kandula - Scott in Inspiration, 0 comments
18
Apr
2023

New Year, New… Blue?

It’s the dawn of a new year. The internet is flooded with articles about how to make this year your best yet - how to achieve all of those goals that you’ve had in the back of your mind for years, and how to finally break free of negative habits and feel complete in yourself.

Now, I don’t know how you feel at this time of year, but I know that for me, all of this pressure to suddenly self – actualize can paralyse me into doing absolutely nothing. Then, I feel awful about it.

I struggle in January. The days are gloomy, it’s cold, and all I want to do is curl up with a good book and drink hot chocolate. I’m a personal trainer, yes, but I’m also human. Personal trainers go through cycles of motivation too! And I know how challenging these cycles can be to handle.

I used to beat myself up terribly during winter, because I struggled to get myself going with ANYTHING, let alone kickstart an ambitious training regime, or the pursuit of a lifelong dream. As I grow older and hopefully wiser, I’ve realised that just because the world is telling me that it’s the right time to set goals and achieve them, it may not be the case. You are an individual, and what works for you will be unique to you and where you are in your life.

It’s important to accept where you are at all times. Sometimes you are ready to take on the world, to set goals, and to achieve them. Sometimes, you need to rest and take a break. Taking a break doesn't have to mean complete inaction, though. There are actions that you can take if you are finding that your energy is at a low ebb, in preparation for when you are ready to take things further. Here are a few gentle ideas for gradually preparing yourself for more energised times.

Scribble out what you want to achieve

This is a simple way of kicking off a goal setting process, but without putting any pressure on it. You can sit down with a pen and paper, get comfortable, put on some relaxing music, and simply scribble out what it is that you want to do in the future. There’s no right or wrong way of doing this – you just let yourself be truthful, and scribble out absolutely everything that comes to mind. No one will ever see this, it’s a process purely for you, so let yourself be completely honest about what you want. It can be a really cleansing experience, allowing yourself to really consider what you want to be, or do. Enjoy the process and remember, there’s no pressure on it!

Scribble out what you feel frustrated with

This is the opposite to the above in some ways. The method is the same, sit down with a pen and paper, make sure you’re alone and have some headspace, and scribble out whatever comes to mind, but this time focus on what is really frustrating you. This could be things that you feel get in the way of you achieving what you want (this could be lack of time, too many other priorities, a specific person or responsibility), or frustrations that you may have with yourself (do you feel that you just can’t get going, that you have too far to go, that you don’t know what to do?). Just anything at all that makes you feel frustrated, because once it’s on the page, it’s out of you, and you’ll feel better for it.

Stretch, stretch, stretch!

So many people neglect stretching, because it can feel like “light” work that isn’t going to have any major effect. The fact is, stretching is ESSENTIAL if you want to have a well trained, functional body. Flexibility allows you to perform far more effectively when you are ready to do more intensive training, so use the downtime to work on gentle stretching work to get those limbs ready for a more high energy period of training. I personally advocate a mindful approach to training, where you focus in on your body and breath with no distractions, but, if it gets you moving, do some stretching in front of the TV! You will feel brilliant for it, and you won’t get bored!

Learn to Rest

This is a tough one, sometimes. It’s a skill to be able to rest in a way that is recuperative. I still struggle with this, because even when I’m on “holiday”, I’m often still beating myself up about what I should be doing, and making plans for how to do better once my holiday has finished. Perhaps you spend evenings sitting watching Netflix, enjoying chocolate biscuits and feeling guilty – or you spend time feeling anxious about not getting enough done, or an incomplete to-do list that you are pressuring yourself to complete. None of those things are resting. Your mind and body are in a state of turmoil and you will gradually wear yourself down and then feel terrible that you don’t have a great deal of energy to do the things that you want to do so much!

Spend some time learning to really rest. It’s easier said than done, I know, but learn to be kind to yourself, and develop this essential skill. If you’re relaxing with a TV programme, really go  with it. If you’re logged off work and your brain needs to decompress, let it happen! If you combine rest with the brainstorming above, you’ll be doing plenty to help yourself to prepare for a more active process of setting and achieving your fitness goals when you’re ready.

Trust yourself

Finally, I can testify, from personal experience, that slow and steady is the way to achieve lifelong, sustainable change. I’ve been letting myself grow and develop new, healthy habits for years, and now, winter isn’t a time for my health and fitness to fall by the wayside. Exercise is a way of life, and I don’t need to kickstart anything in the cold, dark of winter. It’s part of the day to day, business as usual, because I do the hard work of making change and improving at a different time of the year – a time that works well for me and my personal rhythm. You will find your way – trust yourself!

So, there you go! That’s my alternative take on how to take advantage of the dawn of a new year. Take it easy on yourself. January may be peak time for your productivity, or it may not – just listen to your own body and work with it. There’s no forcing long term change, so believe in yourself and the process of preparing the ground for the time that you are ready to take the next steps to achieving all of your health and fitness goals 🙂

Scales, weight loss, new year goals

"It’s important to accept where you are at all times. Sometimes you are ready to take on the world, to set goals, and to achieve them. Sometimes, you need to rest and take a break. "

Posted by Taj Kandula - Scott in Philosophy, 0 comments
02
Apr
2019

I never feel like I have enough energy to exercise

I never feel like I have enough energy to exercise

Ah, we've all been here. You have the best of intentions, but when your alarm goes off in the morning, your bed is heaven. Or you get home from work, exhausted, and a takeaway and Netflix seems far more therapeutic than a workout.

First things first. If you're feeling low on energy and at all out of sorts, go to the doctor and talk about it. There could be medical reasons for how you're feeling, and the first thing to do is to make sure that it isn't the symptom of a medical ailment. 

If you've been to the doctor and there isn't anything medical, and you're struggling to get going, it may be time for a change in perspective on exercise. 

The trick is to look at exercise in a new way. It isn’t something that you have to do, that’s hard work and exhausting. It’s a pleasure, good for both mind and body, and it gives you energy.

Easier said than done, I know, but this is the ticket to a healthier lifestyle. Somehow, we have become a society that feel that an evening in front of the telly is better for us than a walk outside. That a bar of chocolate can heal our psychological exhaustion from the trials of day to day life. That exercise is a looming cloud over the day, when in reality, it's the sunshine that gives your body nourishment and energy and just so happens to ensure that you stay in shape.

The first step, is to make an appointment with yourself to do your workout. Mark it in your calendar. Treat it like you would any other appointment. It is like a couples therapy session between you and your body! It's IMPORTANT.

Now keep reminding yourself that you have a workout in your diary. Make sure you know what workout you are doing. Keep reminding yourself that you don't miss workouts. Self-perception has the biggest role to play here - if you perceive yourself as someone who sticks to their workout schedule, that is the person you will become.

Now, I'm not saying that feeling low on energy is an easy one to fix. But if you have been to the doctor, and there isn't a medical reason why you're feeling low on energy, it's worth seeing if working on your self-perception helps.

Don't limit yourself. Believe in yourself. It's important that you look after yourself. Exercise will give you energy. It's a way of showing yourself love. It's a way of reminding yourself that you're worth the effort.

Give it a go and see how you get on. Remember, you don't miss workouts! You are active! You work out, and radiate health and energy! You are the picture of wellness. And every so often, you enjoy a takeaway, Netflix series and bar of chocolate and feel absolutely NO guilt whatsoever, knowing that you look after yourself and your body.

That's a good way to live.

girl under blanket on sofa low energy

"The trick is to look at exercise in a new way. It isn’t something that you have to do, that’s hard work and exhausting. It’s a pleasure, good for both mind and body, and it gives you energy."

Posted by Taj Kandula - Scott in Lifestyle, 0 comments
19
Feb
2019

Why Shouldn’t I Weigh Myself?

Why Shouldn't I Weigh Myself?

Quite simply, it’s not a proper measure of your fitness, wellness, or health. Weight loss is one of the most common aspirations that I come across, but I actively encourage my clients to avoid the scale. Here are three reasons why.

1. Lighter isn’t always healthier

It’s really simple. Dropping pounds on the scale is NOT a sign that you are getting fitter. The measure of your progress is how you feel, the quality of the choices that you’re making, and the power that you are giving yourself to become the person that you want to be by digging deep. It is not whether you sit at a certain level on the BMI scale.

2. There is no such thing as an “ideal” weight.

So many people want to reach a particular weight, or lose a certain amount, because somehow that will mean that they suddenly feel better about themselves. The simple fact is, you can lose lots of weight taking unhealthy measures, such as not eating, or drinking juice all day every day, but you will not feel good in yourself for it. Before you know it, you will put the weight back on, and you will feel terrible for letting yourself gain weight.

There is nothing to gain from obsessing over reaching an “ideal” weight. There is no such thing. Life just isn’t that simple. YOU aren’t that simple!

3. Weight doesn’t account for natural fluctuations

Your body is going through a raft of fluctuations on a regular basis. Women are continually going through hormonal changes that cause water retention, bloating, and general dips in particular neurotransmitters in some cases, and these can all lead to weight fluctuation on the scale. You can immediately set your confidence back by weighing yourself on a day where your hormones are changing, or you are retaining water from a meal. Equally, if you haven’t pooped…. It will make a difference!

There are plenty of ways to measure your progress that don’t involve the scales. Taking measurements is a good way to keep track of real changes in your body shape. As you get fitter and healthier, it’s very likely that you will drop clothes size, and having an item of clothing that you can try on every 6 weeks can also be a good way to enjoy tangible change.

The key thing is how you FEEL. Feeling that you are making the right choices for both your mind and body. Feeling that you are proud of who you are; someone who makes a decision to make positive change, and bravely sees that journey through. Feeling that you are the person that you want to be.

Free yourself from the scale! It isn't the measure of your worth!

To your success 🙂

 

Scales, weight loss, new year goals

"The key thing is how you FEEL. Feeling that you are making the right choices for both your mind and body. Feeling that you are proud of who you are; someone who makes a decision to make positive change, and bravely sees that journey through. Feeling that you are the person that you want to be. "

Posted by Taj Kandula - Scott in Philosophy, 0 comments
29
Aug
2018

I’m embarrassed about running in public

I'm embarrassed about running in public

Running is one of the simplest ways to get started on your fitness journey, and one of the most effective for your health and wellbeing. It can be intimidating to get started running because it’s very easy to feel self conscious about getting outside and being a beginner in public, but fear not! Here are a few hints to help you to overcome the initial hurdle of going for your first few runs so that you can move towards greater health, fitness and wellness!

Have a plan

It’s so important, in every element of your training, to have a plan for your own progression. Having a plan will ground your workouts in reality, and means that you don’t have to think too much when you’re tired and potentially demotivated. With running, slow and steady wins the race. You may wish to build up to 20-30 minutes of consecutive running over the course of 6-8 weeks, starting with a 1 minute jog, 1 minute walk pattern. Or, you may want to start with a 30 second jog, 1 minute walk pattern. Then you can gradually build, week by week, adding 30 seconds or 1 minute to each jog interval to maintain a healthy rate of progression. The key thing is to have a plan in place that you can follow, and which accommodates your starting point. You want to sustain your training and commitment, not beat yourself up about not reaching a target that was unrealistic in the first place.

Understand your barriers

Take some time to really sit down and think about what it is that you are fearful of. What’s stopping you? I remember when I first started running, it was simple things – fear that people would see how unfit I had allowed myself to become, not wearing the right gear, being laughed at. It was a difficult process letting myself think about it and understanding what was stopping me from getting started, but once I acknowledged those challenges, I was able to start finding ways to deal with them. The first step to dealing with any challenge is understanding what is making it difficult in the first place. Running is no different! Just be completely truthful with yourself, accept your barriers, and resolve to overcome them, slowly but surely. You’ll be amazed at how empowered you feel when you go ahead and go for your run despite all of the challenges that you face. It’s worth the effort!

Zone in on yourself when running 

It’s very easy to become concerned with what other people are thinking of you. It’s a very natural, human thing to do! We all do it, but when that concern stops you from doing something that is good for you, it’s time to shift your focus. When you’re running, zone in on yourself and your technique and form, as well as your breathing and mental processes. There is plenty to think about to make sure that you’re performing your runs with good technique, leaving little room for you to concern yourself with what anyone else is thinking of you! Consider your positioning – are you holding yourself upright? Are you using your feet in a heel / toe pattern? Are your shoulders nice and relaxed? There are so many things to think about that if you focus in on your own technique, you won’t notice that there’s anyone else around!

Comfort first

Exercise, like most things, is easier when you’re comfortable with what you’re wearing. It’s very easy to get caught up in anxieties about what you should be wearing to train because there is a whole area of fashion dedicated to snazzy fitness gear, but there isn’t any need to over complicate it. For running, you just need a good pair of supportive trainers that fit you properly, and a pair of jogging bottoms and top. In extreme heat, it’s a good idea to wear cooler clothing, no heavy fabrics, and in the cold, a good pair of running gloves and a hat will help you to conserve body heat in the early stages of your runs. All in all, it’s very simple. Wear something comfortable, that you are happy to get muddy or sweaty in, and that allows plenty of room for movement. That’s about it!

Finally, ladies, a supportive sports bra is essential. It makes a huge difference to how you feel doing any kind of impact exercise when you invest in one!

Be proud of yourself for showing up

We live in a very results oriented world. Little regard is given to the simple things; the joy of simply doing something, the pride of following through on a plan, the invigoration in our bodies after some simple exercise. Let yourself be proud every time you take the plunge and take yourself out for a run. When your resolve becomes shaky, remind yourself that you are going to keep showing up, and let yourself feel justifiably proud for following through on your plan to get running. You’ll soon start to feel the benefits of those regular runs, and it won’t be long before you’re encouraging your friends and family to join you!

Now, get those trainers on and get out for that run you've been planning! Enjoy!

 

 

woman running outdoors

"Let yourself be proud every time you take the plunge and take yourself out for a run. When your resolve becomes shaky, remind yourself that you are going to keep showing up, and let yourself feel justifiably proud for following through on your plan to get running."

Posted by Taj Kandula - Scott in Exercise, Lifestyle, 0 comments
15
Aug
2018

What are the benefits of training outdoors?

What are the benefits of training outdoors?

I encourage outdoor training as much as possible. I’m often asked about the benefits of this approach, so here are a few of my thoughts on the key benefits of training outdoors.

Training outdoors means you’re spending time in nature

This may well be the primary benefit of training outdoors. Gyms may be full of snazzy equipment, loud music, and trendy people in cool outfits, but none of those things are necessary to lead a healthy lifestyle. We live in a world that encourages us to sit in front of screens, completely sedentary, for hours at a time, and we spend little time nourishing our bodies with fresh air, and the sensations of the elements. Training outdoors gives you the opportunity to give your body the time in nature that it craves. Everyone feels good for spending time outdoors. Our bodies need it.

The environment will challenge you

Whether it’s hot or cold, sunshine or rain, the weather will present different challenges for your body. It will be forced to regulate itself and adapt to the environment (something it is designed to do!) rather than false conditions (such as air conditioning in a gym) managing your temperature artificially. The ground will make you balance yourself – if you are running outdoors, the terrain will constantly be changing, and your body and mind will be alert and present as you adapt to those changes. If you are running against the wind, your muscles will be forced to work harder to push you forward. If you are doing burpees in slippery mud, you will have to work doubly hard to make sure you don’t slip. All of this is powerful functional training that will increase the benefits of each move that you’re performing. You’ll also feel invigorated for spending time connected to the elements.

You can get creative!

The image on my post is from a session I did with one of my clients recently. We went to a kids playground and she climbed, jumped and slid her way through the workout. She had a wonderful time getting back in touch with her inner toddler, and she knew she’d done a solid workout because her muscles were speaking to her loudly the next day! I’m sure you have a park close to you, where you can climb the climbing frame, tackle the monkey bars, climb up the slide over and over, or push the roundabout. There may be benches close by that you can use to perform step – ups, or a tree to use for balance as you do a set of lunges (or for climbing practice if you’re feeling particularly adventurous!). There are plenty of options, and training outdoors gives you a wonderful opportunity to get creative with your exercise.

You won’t ever have to wait for a machine

We’ve all been there. You’re pumped for your workout, in your training gear, water bottle at the ready, earphones plugged in… And there’s nothing free, except maybe a complicated new machine that no one understands enough to use. So you spend ages wandering around the gym, trying to look like you’re not lost and frustrated, and by the time a treadmill becomes available, all of the enthusiasm has been drained out of you. So you do a perfunctory 10 minutes, shower, and go home, feeling dejected. That will never happen when training outdoors! There’s plenty of space for everyone.

You will meet people & inspire them!

One of the biggest fears that you may face when thinking of training outdoors is the idea of people seeing you. A gym is a contained environment which can make you feel like you have a bit of control. I completely understand that. What I’ve found, is that training outdoors, and doing something a bit different, makes people feel comfortable with saying hi and making positive comments about what you’re doing! It’s a really wonderful thing. I can’t count the number of times I’ve been out training, myself or with a client, and people have stopped to say well done, or that they know they should be doing the same thing. Often a dog will come along to explore what is happening (often a welcome break for a client!). It’s a lovely way to connect with people, and you are inspiring them to think about their own health and fitness. Every time you get out there and show the courage and commitment to do your workout, you’re showing everyone around you that it’s possible for them too. What a wonderful thing to share with the world.

It’s completely free

Forget crazy joining fees, extortionate monthly costs and a membership card that fades and eventually gets lost. Training outdoors will cost you nothing. The pressure is off as far as clothing is concerned – you know you’re getting dirty, so you don’t need any snazzy gear – and you are doing your body so much good by getting fresh air rather than being stuck in an air-conditioned gym. All for NOTHING! Pretty good, right?

Training outdoors ticks all the boxes. It’s challenging, it’s good for your wellbeing, and promotes excellent functional training. It doesn’t cost you a penny, and it will benefit you in many ways. Not just physically, but mentally, and creatively.

Give it a go! You won't regret it!

To your success!!

P.S If you need a few tips on getting started on your fitness journey, my e-book, “Getting Started” is free to download. Click HERE to subscribe to my mailing list (no spam, I promise!) and download your free copy 🙂

client training outdoors

"Every time you get out there and show the courage and commitment to do your workout, you’re showing everyone around you that it’s possible for them too. What a wonderful thing to share with the world."

Posted by Taj Kandula - Scott in Exercise, 0 comments
11
Jul
2018

Dare to be different

Dare to be different - love yourself

In today’s world, we’re born into an inescapable social system where judging the human body is the norm. We are a society obsessed with how our bodies look. Social media has created a platform for us to judge each other and pass comment, and actively encourages us to broadcast ourselves and measure our self worth in terms of how many likes we get on Facebook in response to our latest profile picture, or how many followers we have on Instagram. It takes a lot of courage and strength to dare to be different, and to refrain from negative self judgement, or the judgement of others. 

From the moment that we come into being, we observe and absorb the stimuli surrounding us on both a conscious and subliminal level. On one hand, this is a wonderful thing; the capacity to learn and absorb so much through our senses is part of what makes us the amazing creatures that we are. But, if what we are taking in is riddled with negative imagery and messages that encourage unrealistic expectations of ourselves, it can lead to negative outcomes.

Nowhere is this more apparent, in my view, than in our confused ideals around our bodies.

We are encouraged to look at our bodies as manifestations of our social worth in the world. The value of the body is often reduced to the external. The prevalent questions we ask ourselves are not around the issue of how well our bodies function and move, or how we can look after them, but how well they match up to the images that you see in the popular media.

“If only I had a body like that”, we say, looking wistfully at the imagery of so – called perfection that we see on the cover of the latest magazines, or on our Facebook feed, “I would love my body. My life would be wonderful.”

Except, it wouldn’t be. You wouldn’t feel better about yourself. As soon as another fabricated “ideal” of the perfect body is created by the media, you will feel completely inadequate again. And, here’s news for you – that “perfect” model you were looking at so wistfully? They will be feeling inadequate too, because their spell in the artificial warmth of the media sun has ended, and their body is no longer beautiful enough. It’s tragic. The whole system is designed to make sure that we all feel rubbish about our bodies, so that we’ll keep aspiring to something else. We’re rarely encouraged to truly step back, develop a relationship with our bodies, and to love them. There are fringe movements, claiming that they are all about empowerment, but even these can be purely based on the aesthetic. Proponents of a well intentioned “Love Your Body” movement can still be advertising their 6 pack abs and defined biceps in carefully angled photos posted on Instagram, potentially making others feel inadequate in comparison. It’s a difficult system to escape.

Our bodies ARE beautiful, yes, and exercise can help us to maximise our natural, aesthetic gifts, but far more importantly, our bodies are incredible vessels which allow us to do wondrous things. Things that we have come to take for granted. They allow us to experience the wonders that nature offers us. They allow us to play. To dance. To LIVE. How often are we encouraged to stop and really thank our bodies for keeping us alive? For working tirelessly, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week for decades to keep our hearts beating? For allowing us to experience life through our senses? In contrast, how often are we encouraged to shame ourselves, to subject our bodies to a barrage of experiments testing cosmetic products, fad diets, and punishing exercise regimes just so that we will conform to some arbitrary ideal of human beauty? Try watching an advert break and really pay attention to the messages that each advert is sending you. I’m positive that you won’t see a single one that encourages you to simply appreciate yourself. Why would you? That’s not a product. It doesn’t make money. If you were happy with your skin, your face, your hair, your body, your life, you wouldn’t need to buy anything to make you feel better about it. The first step to selling is to make you feel like you don’t match up to an ideal so that you'll consider buying whatever is being sold to get you closer. It’s cruel.

When the barrage of media stimulation that surrounds us is so relentless, it is challenging to take a step back and consider what our bodies actually are. We are taught from a worryingly young age that the value of the body in society is based more on how the body looks, than what it does.

The body allows us to experience life through our senses. Everything we feel, we feel through our bodies. When we embrace that, appreciating it for that rather than simply focusing on how it looks, and develop our relationship with our physicality in a loving, nurturing way, we begin to radiate beauty. True beauty, that shines from the inside out. Beauty that will stand the test of time, and the ever changing fads of fashion, because it’s not about what anyone else has ordained as beautiful. It’s your true beauty, and no one else’s.

It’s hard work, undoing old ways of looking at yourself and creating a new relationship with your body, but you will be stunned by the liberation that you experience when you are free of old habits, and learn to appreciate your body for the wondrous miracle that it is.

Your worth is not defined by what apps, adverts, or mob movements spread via social media decide. Your worth is decided by YOU. Next time you stand in front of the mirror and speak to yourself negatively, remind yourself of how hard your body is working for you, and dare to appreciate yourself. Dare to love yourself enough to make a change, to develop your relationship with your body through balanced eating and nurturing exercise, and discover your beauty. Yours. No one else’s. 

Dare to be different.

tiger behind text saying dare to appreciate yourself

"The prevalent questions we ask ourselves are not around the issue of how well our bodies function and move, or how we can look after them, but how well they match up to the images that you see in the popular media."

Posted by Taj Kandula - Scott in Philosophy, 0 comments