Lifestyle

21
Dec
2018

How do I fit exercise into my busy schedule?

How do I fit exercise into my busy schedule?

Time. In the modern age, everyone seems to suffer from a lack of Time. And exercise is one of the first casualties of the epidemic.

It can seem very overwhelming, the idea of fitting in exercise when there is so much to do, so many plates to spin, and often, very little time and space to look after yourself. But here's the thing. Looking after your body is literally a matter of life or death. Your body keeps you alive. If you aren't looking after your body, you are reducing its ability to look after you. So, as a society, it might be a good idea for us to bump looking after our bodies up the priority list.

There's a conception that exercise has to be a big deal. That it has to be a regimented thing that you buy special clothes for, go to special places for, or have special equipment for. That's not the case. Exercise is just moving. So you could count walking around the park as exercise. Playing more actively with the kids is exercise. Dancing in your living room is exercise. 10 minutes of moving in a way that gets your heart rate up is exercise. We all have time for that. Try it. Start with 10 minutes a day of something that will get your heart rate up - dance, run around with the kids, take a brisk walk around the block. There's no right or wrong. Just move.

Once that's done, hurrah! You've done a 10 minute workout!

Do that every day, and gradually see if you can build up to 2 active 10 minute sessions a day, then 3. Notice how relaxed you feel after a bit of physical activity. Once you remove the pressure around having to do a long, regimented routine, you'll be able to find ways to incorporate exercise into your life. It will become part of your day, rather than an imposition. Eventually, it will be a habit,  you will feel much more connected and confident in your body, and you’ll be getting fitter every day.

 

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"There's a conception that exercise has to be a big deal. That it has to be a regimented thing that you buy special clothes for, go to special places for, or have special equipment for. That's not the case. Exercise is just moving"

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07
Nov
2018

I’m too embarrassed to exercise

I'm too embarrassed to exercise

Getting started is difficult for many reasons. Feeling embarrassed about actually moving is a very common one, so if you're concerned about this, you're not alone.

It's sad that the world can make you feel embarrassed about doing something as natural as exercising. Exercising is just moving your body, and our bodies are designed to move. So the first thing to remember, is that you are no different to anyone else in this regard. However self conscious you feel about your body, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it, and it will enjoy movement as much as anyone else's body will.

Doing something new is always intimidating. It's a challenge. And the best way to deal with something being intimidating is to take it slowly, and ease towards your goals gently, with compassion. Be kind to yourself. It's so easy to defeat yourself before you've even started by speaking to yourself negatively, for getting angry with yourself for decisions you have made in the past, but the world is a tough place as it is, and you deserve love. Self love is a good place to start.

The great thing about exercise is that you can do it anywhere. You can go to the gym, the park, or stay at home, and all of these things are effective. The key is to gently experiment with options to see what works for you. Perhaps working out at home is a good starting point, because the thought of the gym is so intimidating that it stops you from doing anything at all. On the other hand, perhaps you won't find the motivation to exercise if you are in your home environment because it will seem so much easier to sit in front of Netflix all evening rather than exercise. You may well benefit from working with a personal trainer who can work with you in the scenario that you find most comfortable, as it will become a timetabled activity which has been designed with your challenges in mind. The key thing is to gently try different methods and see what suits you. There's no rush, take your time, and remember, everyone feels self conscious! You're no different for feeling this way, and just reading this article is a big step in the right direction.

Be kind to yourself. You'll get to where you want to be, and you will unlock that self confidence that you want. It'll just take some self love, patience, and the right guidance.

Now, how about taking a 10 minute walk around the block? Or around the park? Or just walking up and down the stairs a couple of times? See how you go!

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"..the best way to deal with something being intimidating is to take it slowly, being kind to yourself, and easing yourself towards your goals gently, and  with compassion. Be kind to yourself."

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10
Oct
2018

How do I stick to it?

How do I stick to it?

This is a mental game. Sticking to a new habit is purely to do with the mind, and you are in control. That's the thing to remember.

You've got this.

That said, it doesn't always feel that way. So it's always helpful to have someone who you can count on to keep checking in with you and encouraging you to stick to your resolve when the going gets tough. It can be anyone; a friend, member of the family, or a trainer. You've got it covered, you really do, but having someone who cares about your achieving your goals as much as you do, who you can depend on to have your back when any doubt kicks in, is invaluable.

Remember, this is a long term change, so don't pressure yourself into being perfect 100% of the time. If you miss a workout, or have that bag of crisps you promised yourself you wouldn't eat, draw a line under it. Don't let it become a slippery slope to self sabotage. Change is a bumpy road, and life is chaotic, so allow yourself to roll with the punches and don't get stuck in negative, self critical patterns just because you're human.

Think long term. Think sustainable progress. Think accountability. Everyone misses a workout every so often, or has an extra slice of cake they didn't intend to have. The difference between people who are fit and healthy vs those who are not, is how they handle those blips.

Believe in yourself. Cut yourself some slack. Call on your accountability partner when you feel your resolve weakening. And remember, you're improving, every day. Just keep going!

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"..it's always helpful to have someone who you can count on to keep checking in with you and encouraging you to stick to your resolve when the going gets tough. It can be anyone; a friend, member of the family, or a trainer."

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29
Aug
2018

I’m embarrassed about running in public

I'm embarrassed about running in public

Running is one of the simplest ways to get started on your fitness journey, and one of the most effective for your health and wellbeing. It can be intimidating to get started running because it’s very easy to feel self conscious about getting outside and being a beginner in public, but fear not! Here are a few hints to help you to overcome the initial hurdle of going for your first few runs so that you can move towards greater health, fitness and wellness!

Have a plan

It’s so important, in every element of your training, to have a plan for your own progression. Having a plan will ground your workouts in reality, and means that you don’t have to think too much when you’re tired and potentially demotivated. With running, slow and steady wins the race. You may wish to build up to 20-30 minutes of consecutive running over the course of 6-8 weeks, starting with a 1 minute jog, 1 minute walk pattern. Or, you may want to start with a 30 second jog, 1 minute walk pattern. Then you can gradually build, week by week, adding 30 seconds or 1 minute to each jog interval to maintain a healthy rate of progression. The key thing is to have a plan in place that you can follow, and which accommodates your starting point. You want to sustain your training and commitment, not beat yourself up about not reaching a target that was unrealistic in the first place.

Understand your barriers

Take some time to really sit down and think about what it is that you are fearful of. What’s stopping you? I remember when I first started running, it was simple things – fear that people would see how unfit I had allowed myself to become, not wearing the right gear, being laughed at. It was a difficult process letting myself think about it and understanding what was stopping me from getting started, but once I acknowledged those challenges, I was able to start finding ways to deal with them. The first step to dealing with any challenge is understanding what is making it difficult in the first place. Running is no different! Just be completely truthful with yourself, accept your barriers, and resolve to overcome them, slowly but surely. You’ll be amazed at how empowered you feel when you go ahead and go for your run despite all of the challenges that you face. It’s worth the effort!

Zone in on yourself when running 

It’s very easy to become concerned with what other people are thinking of you. It’s a very natural, human thing to do! We all do it, but when that concern stops you from doing something that is good for you, it’s time to shift your focus. When you’re running, zone in on yourself and your technique and form, as well as your breathing and mental processes. There is plenty to think about to make sure that you’re performing your runs with good technique, leaving little room for you to concern yourself with what anyone else is thinking of you! Consider your positioning – are you holding yourself upright? Are you using your feet in a heel / toe pattern? Are your shoulders nice and relaxed? There are so many things to think about that if you focus in on your own technique, you won’t notice that there’s anyone else around!

Comfort first

Exercise, like most things, is easier when you’re comfortable with what you’re wearing. It’s very easy to get caught up in anxieties about what you should be wearing to train because there is a whole area of fashion dedicated to snazzy fitness gear, but there isn’t any need to over complicate it. For running, you just need a good pair of supportive trainers that fit you properly, and a pair of jogging bottoms and top. In extreme heat, it’s a good idea to wear cooler clothing, no heavy fabrics, and in the cold, a good pair of running gloves and a hat will help you to conserve body heat in the early stages of your runs. All in all, it’s very simple. Wear something comfortable, that you are happy to get muddy or sweaty in, and that allows plenty of room for movement. That’s about it!

Finally, ladies, a supportive sports bra is essential. It makes a huge difference to how you feel doing any kind of impact exercise when you invest in one!

Be proud of yourself for showing up

We live in a very results oriented world. Little regard is given to the simple things; the joy of simply doing something, the pride of following through on a plan, the invigoration in our bodies after some simple exercise. Let yourself be proud every time you take the plunge and take yourself out for a run. When your resolve becomes shaky, remind yourself that you are going to keep showing up, and let yourself feel justifiably proud for following through on your plan to get running. You’ll soon start to feel the benefits of those regular runs, and it won’t be long before you’re encouraging your friends and family to join you!

Now, get those trainers on and get out for that run you've been planning! Enjoy!

 

 

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"Let yourself be proud every time you take the plunge and take yourself out for a run. When your resolve becomes shaky, remind yourself that you are going to keep showing up, and let yourself feel justifiably proud for following through on your plan to get running."

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18
Jul
2018

A Simple Guide to Setting Effective Goals

A Simple Guide to Setting Effective Goals

Setting effective goals is an essential part of getting yourself mentally prepared for a lifestyle change. It’s easy to jump back into exercise and changing your dietary habits without taking the time to consider why, and often this means that you fall off the wagon sooner rather than later. Goals are fantastic reminders of what you want to achieve, and can be used to keep you on the right track when your mind starts trying to make excuses (i.e. convincing you to stay at home and binge watch The Crown on Netflix rather than do your workout!). Sometimes it's difficult to know where to start, so here is a simple guide to setting effective goals to get you started. 

If you still need convincing about why setting goals is important, click here. If you’re raring to go, keep reading!

Step 1: Brainstorm

Let yourself think very freely about why you want to get fit and healthy. Be completely honest with yourself and scribble out anything and everything that comes to mind. Are you embarrassed by your weight? Frustrated by feeling out of breath all the time? Looking for help with regulating your energy levels? Are you hiding behind baggy clothes and not pursuing your dreams because you feel trapped inside your body? Perhaps you want to be able to eat and feel good about it rather than feeling guilty all the time. We are complex creatures, with lots of stuff going on, so let yourself freestyle here. Don’t be surprised if this is an emotional process. We aren’t often encouraged to really take the time to notice how we feel, and why we might be feeling that way. Sometimes it’s a shock to the system.

Step 2: Isolate key items

If you have completed the above step, you probably have a sheet (or maybe a few!) of paper with scribbles or a long list of thoughts about why you want to get healthy. The next stage is to go through what you have scribbled out in your brainstorm, and highlight which ones feel the most pressing at the current time. Which issue is REALLY bothering you on a day-to-day basis? Pick 3 things at a maximum. Don’t throw the brainstorm away. Keep it in a drawer, ready to refer to when it’s time to set new goals.

Step 3: Create specific goals

It’s time to take your chosen items and create 3 well-defined goals. Think of them as crystallisations of what you want from your health and fitness regime, and why you are making this change. If this feels difficult, it’s a sure sign that this is a vital part of the process for you. It’s far easier to stick to things when you know why you are doing them! If you don’t know why you’re making loads of effort, and don’t have a strong sense of where it’s all leading, you’re bound to struggle. You need that sense of direction to keep you motivated!

You may have heard of SMART goal setting. There are endless articles about this, and it’s a very effective way of making sure that your goals are going to keep you on track when you feel life and it’s many challenges weakening your resolve.

Here are the key aspects of any goals that you set, according to the SMART model:

Specific – your goals need to state, very clearly, what you are striving to achieve. Anyone who reads your goals should be able to understand what your aims are with no ambiguity. If you have a crystal clear picture of what you are aiming for, you are more likely to get there. If you don’t know where you’re heading, you will struggle to keep yourself motivated. You won’t ever know that you’re on the right track, or be able to remind yourself of why it’s worth the effort.

Measurable – we are pleasure seeking creatures. We like to feel good in ourselves. We particularly like to feel a sense of achievement. Clear, indisputable evidence that our effort and hard work is paying off is a guaranteed way to create the feel good factor that will keep you going in difficult times. A goal should be easy to track and measure. The tangible sense of progress will keep you on track.

Achievable – you want to set yourself up for success. Goals shouldn’t be too easy, but if you are over – ambitious, you are likely to give up because the goal seems so far away. You want your goals to be within your reach, so that you can visualize achieving them. Setting unachievable goals will hinder you because you won’t be able to “see” your success in your mind’s eye. That visualization is a key element of your success. This is also the time to consider whether you need any external aid – you may feel that a trainer can help by writing a plan tailored to your goals. Here’s an article to help you find the right trainer if you decide to go down that road.

Relevant – goals are designed to keep you on track, and keep you motivated. It needs to be easy to see how the achievement of this goal is going to positively impact your life. It can be as simple as wanting to be able to run for the bus without feeling winded, or being able to play with the kids at the park without feeling self conscious about being overweight. There are no right or wrong goals – the trick is to take the time to think about what is actually relevant to you in the context of your life and situation.

Time bound – when you set a goal, set a time frame. If your goal is to be able to run 5k, but you don’t set a time frame for it, you aren’t giving yourself any impetus to get started, or to stick to it. If you set a goal to run 5k in 3 months, you are far more likely to stick to your exercise plan because you have a deadline to aim for.

Apply these 5 elements to your 3 goals. Once done, write the goals out over and over again. Take your time with this process, and let yourself do it properly. Trust me, it’s worth the effort!

Step 4: Embed your goals 

Now, you have 3 strong goals written down. You have taken the time to transform muddy concepts and ideas into crystal clear statements of intention. You have begun the process of embedding those goals in your mind by writing them over and over. Now, it’s time to move towards completing the process.

Write your 3 goals out onto index cards, or onto post – it notes, and put them somewhere that you will see them frequently. Keep reminding yourself of them, and say them to yourself at night just before falling asleep. Do this for at least 3 days before you start a new eating or exercise plan. Hold yourself back for a short while, and use that time to mentally cement your intentions.

Phew, once you’ve done all of this work, you’ll be raring to go! Enjoy discovering your body confidence! 🙂 

P.S If you need a few tips on getting started on your fitness journey, my e-book, “Getting Started” is free to download. Click HERE to subscribe to my mailing list (no spam, I promise!) and download your free copy 🙂

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"If you don’t know why you’re making loads of effort, and don’t have a strong sense of where it’s all leading, you’re bound to struggle. You need that sense of direction to keep you motivated!"

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